Thanks, Kai. To respond to your points…
1. The text has no ParagraphStyle applied. The behaviour is the same with no style, Basic Paragraph Style (my most hated feature in InDesign), or any other style. There seems to be no way to apply Paragraph Styles to cells without Option-clicking on the Cell Style.
2. When I edit the Table Style to change stroke drawing order the change is evident on screen.
3. I am using alternating row and column strokes in the table setup. First 1: [stroke attributes I want], Next: 0. Then using 0 pt. no colour strokes for the table borders, which gets me what I want.
4. No poo.
Table and Cell styles improvements look like low hanging fruit for an upgrade. But not low enough for the next upgrade, apparently. Yay scalable arrowheads, but why not editable arrowheads?
The benefits of styles are: Quick formatting, global formatting changes, and consistent formatting. But leaving out so many options weakens all of those benefits. How hard would it be to add these…
1. Add cell width and height to Cell Style. Conflicts will occur but can be resolved with a choice: Use largest value, use average value, use smallest value, prefer header, prefer footer, etc. Also allow these values in the Table Style.
2. Allow more options for specific rows and columns instead of just left column and right column. This will greatly improve the value of including row height and column width. The panel in the Table Style dialogue for selecting rows and columns will need to be fully dedicated, not just half of Table Setup.
3. Allow a Table Style to be applied to tabbed text from the Table Styles panel. This will convert the text to a table and apply the Table Style.
4. Include header and footer rows in Table Styles.
5. Fix the fucking bugs.