I appreciate your help, but you're not answering my specific question: can my client's requirements (outlined above in post #4) be met?
I know I haven't yet told you my experience level on ID, but I've been using it 50-60 hours per week since version 1. I know how the Tabs panel works, and I know how to create a properly aligned numbered list. That's not what I'm asking.
I'm hoping someone can look at the specifics of my question, which I laid out in post #4, and tell me if it can be done. I don't need an intro lesson on how various features in ID work. (I realize now that my initial post wasn't specific enough; that's probably why you think I'm a n00b to ID.)
Again, I'm not trying to be snippy with you hank, you are trying to be helpful. 
Consider it a challenge, rather than a request for help: can you set up a Par Style to accomplish what my client wants, using Adobe Jenson Pro, Regular, 10.5/auto?
